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Soulmates

Be careful what you wish for

by Virg the Astrologer

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Myself and other spiritual workers alike can attest to this fact; all most people care about is love and money. And I can't really blame them. We live in a capitalist society where it literally costs money to die and be put in the ground. We really need to work on changing that by the way… but let me silence my Mercury in Aquarius/ Gemini Moon brain and get back to the point. Love. We all want it. I hear WAY TOO MANY PEOPLE talking about twin flame this twin flame that. The concept of twin flames is something we've only recently rediscovered and like all spiritual truths these days has been gentrified and bastardized by millennials and the internet. Sure some souls are split and separated during the soul recycling process. Some aspects of a being may chose to take their doorway after death and go into the light while other fragments of their souls remain bound to the Earth. Many fail to realize that this is not a desirable process and is nothing like the rainbows and butterflies BS that Instagram gurus and charlatans would have you believe. Some people are sleeper cells and may come in a new-agey yoga chick box but have the energetic function of one meant to suppress actual spiritual development. As with all things including my own work, do your research and use discernment. Real recognize real.

Oh yeah so soul mates that's what we were talking about. Well I will say this, I have found mine, he is not my “twin flame” nor do I believe such energy manifests in a way that we can even perceive in this density; although if it were too he and I do share a certain level of astrological compatibility that could suggest sharing some aspects of ourselves on a non linear/ soul level. Things like having your Moons in each others 7th houses as we do can certainly indicate two beings suited for marriage and partnership. But here's the thing, none of it is easy. Being a mirror for another soul means constantly confronting your shadow, waking up each and everyday only to stare your own demons in the face. Sometimes it's easier to be alone, or with someone who cannot access the depths of your soul. A true soulmate is in your life only to transform, alchemize and upgrade your software. More often than not you don't actually end up together. Sometimes it takes lifetimes of chasing, pushing away, wounding and healing one another before you arrive at a place where you are ready for something that even closely resembles a happily ever after. I find in charts that it's usually the one that hurts you the most with which you share the highest soul aspect. Many incarnate simply to teach a soul mate a lesson and then move on to someone else. Others incarnate for reasons that dont include their soulmates and thus may never meet or simply fail to ever realize what may be right under their nose. So before you seek a synastry reading start with your own natal chart. Discover who you are on a soul level. Where are you along your highest souls development? Can you even hold space for something so powerful? Or will such an energy simply devour you before it is yet time. Start with the soul work, get yourself right MIND BODY and SOUL. If you channel your energy into this battle you will begin to attract others that are doing the same and increase your chances for something as dynamic as a soul partner.